Monday, 2 April 2018

Why men hardly forgive women who cheat

1: EGO:- It certainly has a lot to do with their ego being bruised. The thought that another man was able to sleep with Someone they believed they had “ownership” of breaks them to pieces as most of them think the women incapable of sex without emotions, meaning the woman loves another. Remember men are like a lioness that can kill most animals for its cubs but will not allow another animal to even play with its cubs.

2: GUILT:- If a woman cheats, the man will never forgive not only the woman but himself no matter whose fault it is. He feels he has failed as a man to protect and keep his own.

3: THEY CAN’T FORGET:- When a man is making love with his wife, it is a sacred rituals the way she moan shows that his sacrifice has been accepted. So if she makes love with another man he will be thinking the temple is no more sacred and when he makes love to her and she moans, it will be disgusting cause it will be like that is the way she moaned for the other guy!

4: YOU HAVE LOST HER IF SHE CHEATS:- Female infidelity is often much more damaging to a marriage. Don’t get me wrong: Male cheating is definitely harmful. But when a woman fools around, it’s often the beginning of the end of the relationship. For men, cheating often tends to be opportunistic — they’re in the wrong place at the wrong time and the cheating doesn’t necessarily mean anything emotionally. In fact a man can sleep with a woman today and not remember her again but for a woman to have sex with you (in most cases) you must win her heart to win her body.

5: HE PAID YOUR PRICE:- I guess i gotta be blunt here. I know we call it marriage but I think women are being bought in a way. Don’t kill me yet, let’s analyze it. He buys engagement ring. Proposes to you, you accept then he decides to see your people. Your people accept him and give him a list containing heaven and earth. He agrees to pay, he pays for everything and when your parents feel they have collected enough, they hand you over to him. Then you automatically change your name (Change of ownership) which confirms that you are now his own. I have seen where women sponsored their marriage and the men don’t care when they cheat so I believe the day you stop asking for head-cutting bride price for us to marry then we won’t bother much, imagine paying all that money and she gives it to another man..

Four Signs You May Have A Bladder Problem

A lot of the time, there is a high chance that you as many other people out there don’t give much thought to your bladder: when you need to pee, you just, go pee.

But when something in your urinary system goes wrong, there is hardly any way you can mistake the symptoms and signs as they can range from wanting to pee frequently to bloody urine.

Before getting to the cause of the problem, it’s important to know what’s considered normal in terms of urinary frequency. While there’s no set number — after all, some guys just pee more often than others, in general an adult male will urinate between six to eight times per day, and maybe once during the night.

However, it’s not only peeing a lot that can signal something is wrong with your bladder. Here are some of the most common signs that you have a bladder problem and how you can treat it.

Having Blood In Your Urine
Bloody urine can be a symptom of issues such as kidney stones. The jagged surfaces of the stones can scrape along the lining of your urinary tract, causing inflammation and micro-tears.

Blood can also be present in your urine as a result of inflammation in the bladder, such as a urinary tract infection (UTI). UTIs are easily treatable with antibiotics, which is why you should definitely tell your doctor about it as soon as you can spot blood in your urine.

Dark-coloured Urine
If your urine stream is looking a bit darker than usual, then there is a high possibility that you maybe dehydrated. In that case, you should increase your water intake considerably and see if that makes a difference.

Dehydration can also increase your risk of kidney stones, as such, you should keep guzzling water to dissolve the stones.

You Constantly Have To Go To The Bathroom
If you generally have a pretty small bladder, and your friends constantly make fun of you for always having to go to the bathroom to take a piss while out at the movies or a concert, then it may be a cause for concern.

If you however feel the urge to urinate more often than usual, then you likely have an overactive bladder, a condition that strikes women more frequently but can happen in men. In men, it could be a sign of an enlarged prostate, particularly if you’re a man over the age of 60.

Pain When Urinating Or Cloudy Urine
On its own, cloudy urine doesn’t usually signify anything bad, but when accompanied with other issues, it could be potentially serious. If it’s cloudy and it also smells pungent, like ammonia, you might be dehydrated.

If your urine is cloudy and it also hurts when you pee, you likely have an infection somewhere in the urinary system, either in your bladder or along your urethra. The best thing to do is to see a doctor immediately to ensure the infection doesn’t progress further.

Saturday, 16 December 2017

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Thursday, 29 December 2016

The First 5 Things Ladies Look At Within The First 50 Seconds Of Meeting A Guy

What do girls first notice in a guy as soon as they set eyes on him? The shoes? The car-keys? The body language?
These are the first 5 things a girl notices in a guy the first time she meets him.(beg to differ)
And it all happens in seconds!

Your Height, weight and body build. Her eyes captures it all at once

Yes ladies see this next. Are your nail clean and neatly trimmed or have large colonies of bacteria have turned that place to their dwelling place. Pearly white teeth or stained teeth? Well trimmed beard or scraggly hair sticking out like barbed wire. Yes bruv, the ladies notice

This is different from personal hygiene. Your dress sense is rated in two ways- Co-ordination and quality. (yes there is a science to it)
Co-ordination to see how well you put your outfit together .More importantly quality.
Women are very good at sizing up what you are wearing and deciding what rung of the economic ladder you belong.

After they have sized you up, they mentally note if you are married or not by looking at your 4th finger.

How well spoken are you? that is the 5th they look out for.
What do you all think….?

Get in here and add yours!
Remember first impression matters.

Tuesday, 27 December 2016

Fascinating Ideas For Your Garden

When we arrange our garden, it is all about beauty and convenience, that’s why it is so important to find some great ideas that will provide you with both of these things. In this post we offer you to have a look at ideas of how to organize an area for resting in your garden.
Closer To Nature
Wooden gazebo creates an impression of complete unity with Nature. As if it had grown itself, rather than created by man. But, you still feel that you are in a "room" outdoors. Wooden furniture for cottage, made of twisted branches, complements this “painting” inspired by nature. Also a good trick is using a twisted vine to hide pillars design.
Zoning The Space
To visually separate a few zones of the suburban site, such as a resting area and an area where you usually cook, it is possible to construct a small stone wall. Also, for this purpose you may use the hedge of climbing flowers that in addition to privacy will also add beauty to your garden.

A great idea for gazebo with BBQ – a long modern corner sofa with a fireplace in the center. In order to make the plot even more interesting, try to use a pebble and place the large plates to make a track. It looks like a living room outdoors, where the family can gather on a hot day.


Reliable Bricks

This is an old brick building converted into the new garden house. Such accents like patterned rug, bright pillows and paper lanterns have breathed a new life into it. We have a simple and convenient place for rest, and the presence of a roof guarantees the dryness of its inhabitants even in the drizzle, who will be able to enjoy the fresh air and the view even while bad weather.

Pergola Arch

Set in a garden a wooden arch with pergola. You can also lay a tile. There is even a fireplace that will warm you on a cool summer evening. The canopy gives the feeling of space without blocking the Sun's rays.


Crazy Room

In order to get a room in a an open space, it is enough to install a standalone shed. Canopy provides shade and a minimal structure for bearings. A mat on the floor and furniture complete the image. Attach curtains to get more shade and privacy, and here you have a real room. Set the beautiful flowerbeds at the entrance for a majestic view.


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Sunday, 20 November 2016

How To Know If You Are In A Healthy Relationship Or Not

1.You Share Your Thoughts: Living on your own does not show your healthy relationship. Instead of keeping yourself aloof from your life partner, you should share your thoughts openly. This develops a better understanding between you are your spouse.

2.Never Hide Anything: If you do not hide anything from your life partner, then this is one of the most significant signs to show your relationship is healthy. This can help you sort out all your problems with the help of mutual understanding.

3.Your Argument: Believe it or not, your arguments with your spouse are a distinctive sign of better relationship. You must look at it from a positive point of view. You just need to argue to find solutions to various issues of your life.

4.Respect One Another’s Feelings: This is one of the key signs that reveal the healthiness of your relationship. If you think that both of you respect the feelings of one another, then you must consider it as a strong proof that your relation is healthy.

5.Know About One Another: Apart from respecting feelings of one another, you must know about one another better. You must know what your partner likes or dislikes. This can prevent you from doing things that your partner does not like. This is one of the most prominent signs to show your relationship is healthy.

6.Gifting: Gifting each other is also a very important way to find out if your relationship is good or not. You need not find expensive gifts always. You can even gift him/ her with a beautiful rose.

7.Quarreling: Though unbelievable, quarreling is a sure way to know how to find out if your relationship is healthy. Quarreling does not sound good, but it has some good effects in its trail.

8.Make Decisions Jointly: Destroying relationships is easy; the doctors believe that you can develop a perfect rapport with your spouse. You just need to sit together whenever you find sometime and sit together to make decisions right and more focused towards your real life needs.

9.Go For An Outing: This is one of the strongest signs to show your relationship is healthy. You can feel a freshness in your relationship after coming back from the outing.

10.Show Your Love: Hiding your love for your life partner can be a massive error. If you really love your spouse, then make sure that your counterpart knows it and treasures the relationship.

11.Show Love And Appreciation: Showing love and appreciation towards every activity of your spouse can be an excellent way to show your relationship is healthy. Always encourage him/ her whenever she/ he achieves something great.

12.Trust And Dependence: Trust and dependence are the basic needs of a marriage relationship. If both of you have deep faith between you and your spouse, then you can be very sure that your relationship is sound and strong.

13.Forget About Ego: Ego can be a negative thing for your healthy relationship. It prevents you to get into a relationship.

14.Dine Outside: Staying out together and eating meals in hotels is a very strong sign to show your relationship their. If you have small kids, then going out for a dinner can have a logical effect.

15.Enjoy Sexual Relationship: Sex is a basic ingredient of a successful married life that can be very essential for both the husband and the wife. You must respect the sexual desires of your spouse and enjoy a healthy sex life.

These are the ways to know that you are in healthy relationship or not


1. He is hygienic, but cleans his nails and trims his nose hairs outside of a nail salon. Think about it: Would Hemingway or Gladiator be getting his nails buffed? Methinks not.

2. He can balance both swag and sophistication and a career and a personal life without too many proverbial exclamation points (and certainly not multiple ones in a text message. No, no, no).

3. He reserves his "LOL" for actual laughter, which he exudes out loud and often.

4. He isn't looking to play "pen pal" with you through your iPhone because he knows that all text and no play makes Johnny a very dull boy.

5. When he's interested in a woman, he doesn't wait three days to call her, but he does actually call her, and when he does, he asks her out for dinner, makes reservations, picks a great bottle of wine (because he knows how to) and then makes sure she gets home safely.

6. If he wants to see her again, he lets her know, and if he doesn't, he politely lets her know that it was a pleasure to spend time with her, even if it wasn't. He does, however, let her know gently and firmly enough that he's not interested so that she doesn't waste her time thinking it might become something it won't.

7. He reads actual books and newspapers and holds opinions on everything from scotch pairings to world events all the while understanding that not all of his opinions are facts and that not everyone has to agree with him in order for him to maintain his relationships or his manhood. In fact, he enjoys it when you don't agree with him because it means he gets to indulge you in a good debate or leave you thinking a little bit harder about things than when you sat down in front of him.

8. He opens doors and takes coats, not because he feels a woman is weak, but because he is strong enough to show that he cares about the comfort of those around him.

9. Sure, he might want to get into a woman's bed, but he's also interested in getting into her head as experience has shown him that seduction is a delicate dance and the man who resides in her mind has conquered every other part of her.

10. He appreciates a woman who shows she cares for him, but he isn't interested in being courted. He enjoys taking the lead in courting and doesn't need to be "chased" because he's in desperate need of an ego stroke. He also won't play "puppy dog" to a woman who takes advantage of this.

11. He doesn't look to be anyone's father or savior, and he doesn't pretend to be the leading man in any woman's fairy tale. He's just a man looking for a partner who can slay her own dragons, pay her own bills and explore the world alongside him.

12. He looks for a woman who doesn't need him, but wants him, not for money or the happiness or a baby or a safety net, but solely for who he is.

13. He has a career, a hobby, a family of close friends and a favorite way to have his steak prepared and he isn't the least bit intimidated when the woman in front of him shares these qualities; quite the contrary, it makes him want her more.

14. He has taken the time to get to know himself and has a strong understanding of his own character and convictions, what he values and what he doesn't. He is a man who is honest with himself about himself and therefore is OK being honest with those around him.

15. He takes as much pride in the way he treats women he's with as he does his job and the way he looks.

16. He's not the bad boy, a good boy, or a boy at all; he's a man. A leading man, and he's looking not for a good girl, but a great woman. One who shares all of the solid qualities that he brings to the table, and perhaps, can teach him something along the way. He's willing to wait and work for this woman, to fight for her and will gladly hold out for her as long as he needs to. But when she comes along, he doesn't sit on the fence; he's smart enough to know when he's gotten damned lucky. And when she finds him, she should be smart enough to know the same.

— Brenda Della Casa
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